June 2010
3 posts
My New Phone and the Prayer App
I am loving my new Evo..even more I found a prayer app. I have come to in last year how important my Catholic faith has become to me. It helps me get through the tough times and help me be thankful for the good times. Long story short, I found a prayer titled “Prayer for a Good Husband”. Needless to say, I say it everyday!
Here it is:
O Jesus, lover of the young, the dearest...
Laying in bed I realized...
While laying in bed trying to shut off my mind, I began thinking about bachelor #8. The truth is, I’ve been thinking about him alot today since we passed on the street. Having my friend Jennifer in my head, she told me to say hello, smile and keep walking the next time I saw him. I did just that. The truth is, the feelings I have for him are still the same feelings I had two months ago. ...
I love Hockey!!
I love hockey. I only wish the series on tv right now was the Rangers vs Blackhawks. Since the Broad Street Bullies knocked my beloved Rangers out of making the playoffs I am rooting for Chicago. I think it would be great if they won since it has been such a long time since the city of Chicago was home of the Stanley Cup Champions. The cheer tonight “LET’S GO HAWKS!”
May 2010
2 posts
Broken heart, tears and moving on...
After weeks of holding out hope that #8 would come to his senses, I had to accept that would not happen. Last night I decided to write him. In my email I let him know that I enjoyed being with him and really liked him. However, I realized that he did not want to see me anymore. I let him know that I understood but wish he would have let me know. I extended the olive branch to have a friendly...
April 2010
2 posts
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So I didn’t exactly hit my 2:10:00 goal… But I am still proud of my time. If you knew me 5 years ago, the thought of me running a mile would have been laughable. Not to mention a 10-minute-mile. Not to mention 13.1 10-minute-miles…
I plan on doing a couple more halfs this year, so I’m…
Great, not only will I see these middle aged men in shorty, shorts when I run the half...
Time to Vent about Men & Dating...
Sarah, this is for you:)
Right now, I am still on bachelor #8. I have to admit things have stalled and I am not sure if they will restart or just end completely. Around St. Patty’s Day, he kind of fell off the earth. Eventually he resurfaced telling me he needs to get his life in order. It’s been a couple of weeks and he is still says he is in a funk. I may or may not get a...
March 2010
1 post
February 2010
1 post
Love is opening of the heart...
I think I may be driving God a little crazy right now. I am currently seeing Bachelor #8 also known as “the guy”. I really like him and hoping he feels the same about me. This whole process of dating brings out every insecurity inside of me which I am trying to work through. I always ask God for a sign if he is worth the anxiety I seem to put myself through when I think about him...
January 2010
2 posts
My Bachelors..A Year in Review.
At the request of Sarah..here is my current blog about the bachelors…
In January 2009, I started a mission to find love through Match.com. Needless to say, it has been a very interesting year. I decided in December to end my membership and possibly let nature take it’s course (although it really didn’t work before).
Bachelor #1 — John. I met him for coffee at...
December 2009
2 posts
September 2009
5 posts
The Conclusion I've Come To Tonight
Tonight I’ve come to the conclusion that being single in your 20’s means living footloose and fancy free. Enjoy life, go to bars, party like a rock star. However, being single in your 30’s? Means doing laundry alone on a Saturday night. Oh god, please make it stop. Prince Charming..Where the F*** are you?
Back on Match.com
Back on Match.com for the next 3 months. Pickins are slim!~
I love ... but..
I love men but god, where can I find one that will actually spend time with me. I love my down alternative comforter but I would love to be actually cuddle with a person that has a pulse. Am I asking for a lot?
Dear God...
Dear God,
Through the first 8 months of 2009, I have been through 6 bachelors. Please, oh please, send me Mr. Right. I know he is out there and I’ve been a very good girl. Anymore of this dating insanity I am going to have a nervous breakdown. I know you and St. Peter have had a good laugh with my dating but enough please! One man breaking 2 dates in 3 days is now just mean. Help one...
Stranded at the drive in...not literally but it...
What a Labor Day Weekend. Friday I was suppose to meet Bachelor #6 Andy for drinks and maybe dinner. Well of course, something with work came up last minute and we needed to reschedule. Andy, yes Andy, said Sunday night. Well, kids, I came home from Toms River and sent Andy a message about 3pm to confirm plans. Unfortunately, now called Dickhead, doesn’t respond. Giving the benefit of...
August 2009
2 posts
Erin, this cupcake is for you..
My dear Erin, I know your love of the cupcake. Here is the record for world’s largest cupcake. It weighs 1,224 pounds. Enjoy!
July 2009
3 posts
In Case You Were Wondering Why I am Single at 34..
In a conversation with my wonderful niece Erin regarding whether or not the give she is giving “the boy” is enough for his birthday, this was my words of wisdom…
“Erin, this is a new relationship…don’t set the bar to high.”
Makes perfect sense to me but may explain why I am now working on bachelor #6 in 2009. However, still makes perfect sense to me.
“I think my soulmate died somewhere along the way..”
– My Aunt Holly on why she is single. (via nineandthreequarters)
If Holly’s soulmate died along they way than mine is lost. Since he is a man, he refuses to stop any ask for directions.
June 2009
13 posts
Making Lemonade...
The old expression goes, “when life gives you lemons, make lemonade.” That is what I plan to do. This week I was advised that I was going switch places with my New Brunswick counterpart. Although at first it was hard to think of leaving the building I’ve grown so acustom and fond of along with the people I care about. After a 3.5 mile last night, I realized this may be for...
The Holiday..Great Movie and now I found great...
I love the movie “The Holiday” starring Kate Winslet and Cameron Diaz. I have to say Kate Winslet is probably one of my favorite if not my favorite actress of this generation. She is beautiful, talented and always has a great view of her body image..however I digress.
Recently, I have been thinking about unrequited love. Not that I am in love with anyone but I definitely have a...
Some innocent flirting with Bachelor #4
Today, I did some innocent flirting with Bachelor #4 Frank. I’m sure that is all it was but a girl could hope. For some reason, I like this guy. Not really sure why especially since he doesn’t feel the same way. Oh well, a little innocent flirting will keep my skills up for bachelor #6 when he comes along.
Thank god it's over....Jury Duty
Today ended my civic duty and the case has been settled. Thank god! It could have been a very long 4 weeks if this continued on. I had names for some of the lawyers..one I called “Beady Eyes”. Up close, although they were beady, they actually very nice. One lawyer seriously needed a hot oil treatment. His hair was like straw. Everyday, some of the jurors and I would wait to see...
It's official..I can Twitter
Just signed up for Twitter as JennFern35..what the heck, I’ll give it a try.
Twitter for Dummies..thank you!
Twitter has a video for those who didn’t get. I think I get it now. I am going to sign up. What the heck..I love technology.
Sitting here thinking at Rub-A-Dub
It’s laundry day for me on cloudy and sunny sunday evening. I decided to write the things going through my brain right now. This could be very scary or get me one step closer to the padded room.
What lesson did I learn this week? Don’t ever, I mean EVER, wish for to be called in for jury duty even if it was only wishing for 1 day. I thought I was going to sit around, makes jokes...
I've never been soooooooo happy to be dumped!
Just got an email from bachelor #5 telling me he is at a crossroads and does not feel chemistry. Thank you god for letting him get it. It saves me the trouble of having to figure out how to do it nicely without being blunt…(ie you are boring and I think you are in a cult.)
I think I am going to take a break from Match.com. Maybe I will try the old fashion way, just meeting someone face...
I've entered the Bluetooth realm..
Tonight I purchased a Bluetooth since I decided to run over the headset that came with my phone. For anyone that knows me and is comfortable to tell me…don’t let me be one of those people who turns their Bluetooth into a permanent accessory. Thanks, I really appreciate it.
Jury Duty on Tuesday.
Just in case you were wondering how kooky I am, let me show you. I am sooo excited for jury duty on Tuesday. This is my first time, kind of jury duty virgin. Oh, believe me, I don’t want to be on a trial. I am looking forward to the different type of people I am going to see at the Morris County Court House. I’m sure observations and jokes to follow…
Update, Bachelor #5
Today, I went on date #3 with bachelor #5. Let me first say, he is a really nice guy and I mean it. However, after date #2 there was something about it I could not put my finger on. After friday and saturday conversations, I put my finger on it. He is too obsessed with making money in his e-business. Granted, money is helpful in many ways but to me it should not be the focus. That is all he...
Date #2 with Bachelor #5
Date #2 with Bachelor # 5, keep you posted.
May 2009
5 posts
Yes, I gave into my ice cream craving...
Oh yeah, a chocolate Reese’s peanut butter cup Friendz..worth every calorie and gram of fat tonight. Yummy, it was soo bad it was good!
What I am currently craving...
I am craving a cigarette and a beer. But since I have to do homework, I think I will settle for chocolate ice cream with peanut butter sauce and Reece’s peanut butter cups. Yeah, I just ran 3.5 miles, so I gonna do it!
I will not give up hope!
So, currently in dating game. Not the fun gameshow version, more like the pain in the butt one. First date after first date. And the third date, forget about it. There never seems to be a fourth or even a real fourth one. However, I remain hopeful. Hopeful there is a man out there for me. A man when I’m having a bad day will listen and let me know it is going to be ok. A man to just...
Can we see?
mattdrag:
my hair is shoooooooooooort!
When do we get to see the new hair do?
March 2009
3 posts
I Think I've become the NJ Bachelorette..where's...
As you may know, I am working Match.com to it’s fullest. There was Bachelor #1, the boring Wall Street guy who was smaller than me. Then there was Bachelor #2 who was the lawyer who had potentional. However, he got weird and has not called me in two weeks. Oh well, next up.
Currently, I am talking to 2 men. Pete and Frank. Frank is a project manager and Pete is in Pharmaceutical...
Oh no, please don't snow.
The forecast calls for 6 to 12 inches of snow. I hope this is a time the weathermen lie. How many more days until spring?
I've been a winking fool...
Ok, so bachelor #2 did not work out. Next, up the many men of Match.com and the many winks to come. Let’s just stay, my winking eye is a little worn out right now. If I read their profile and they did not have crazy eyes, than I sent a wink. I’ve had a few wink backs and now I am following them up with an email. Yes, ladies and gentlemen I am looking for love and taking no...
February 2009
8 posts
Hey Kids..today was a better day.
As I woke up this morning, I repeated my mantra “I AM FREAKIN FABULOUS”. Yes, Virginia not only is there a Santa Claus but there is another day. Each day is a gift and I plan on making the best of it.
As far as the male situation, I push on. I will upload some photos that make me look pretty and show off my fabulousness (I sure there is no such word but I am making it up.). So...
My Mantra for today....
“I am freakin fabulous!” Yes, I’ve come the conclusion I am best asset and advertising. People and situations are going to try me today and everyday. However, I am not going to let them win. I am freakin fabulous, I am funny and I am smart….I think there was a SNL skit that I must say “Gosh darnit, people like me.” Sorry, I digress.
Work totally stressed...
Wish me luck..tomorrow night is the big date!
To all out there, wish me luck. Tomorrow is my big Valentine’s date with bachelor #2. I’ll keepy you posted….
Adele...I love her.
Just heard grammy winner for best new artist Adele. Love her! I need to go listen to her songs now.
What Would You Like Me To Do: Regarding Song...
mattdrag:
I love doing covers of newer or older songs nobody has done yet. Than have them downloadable and such later on Or make a sweet video. Either way i’d love your input on what kind of songs you’d like to hear.
Wanted to do a Lady GaGa song that would be redic or like a simple Paramore thing or maybe or like 80s stuff cheesy hair band ballads. I don’t know.
Anyway let me know at either...