13th
Time to Vent about Men & Dating…
Sarah, this is for you:)
Right now, I am still on bachelor #8. I have to admit things have stalled and I am not sure if they will restart or just end completely. Around St. Patty’s Day, he kind of fell off the earth. Eventually he resurfaced telling me he needs to get his life in order. It’s been a couple of weeks and he is still says he is in a funk. I may or may not get a message from him. It could be 3 days or 3 weeks before I hear from him next. I’m not really sure but for some reason I remain hopeful.
The pattern I have notice with men is they seem to fall off the face of the earth. Do I need to put out an all points bulletin to get a response. Men..I asking, no I am begging you. If you are not into a girl or women—TELL HER. I do not care what excuse you use..”it’s me” or “it’s you”, just some kind of communication. I clearly like him and think I make it clear. If you don’t feel the same, ok. It will sting a bit but I will get over it. I will not beg you to love me or even like me. TELL ME DAMN IT! I now know the reason why women snap. Men drive you there. Maybe it’s just me. I am an Aries, firey sign. But really, silence. We have phones, email, texting and dare I say in person to end something. I know where you live. If I was that kind of crazy, I would go to your house. (Since I am kooky and not crazy, no need to worry about me showing up on your front door)
To all the single men out there, young and old. Silence is not golden. Be a man, take off the skirt and have some balls. If you are not or no longer interested in the woman you are currently seeing than TELL HER!!!!!! You will be the good guy by being honest (and less likely a crazy woman will boil a bunny).
Ok, I feel better. Still have hope #8 will come out of his funk. If not, in the market for #9.